I broke up with him the same week our baby had his first birthday. People say they're sorry, I thank them, and later think why it felt strange. It only deserves congratulations.I agree that it's sad for a child to grow in a broken family for that some of the potential joys may not happen... Continue Reading →
AI scaremongering got it wrong. The doom is worse and closer than we thought
People have imagined that world will be taken over by AI for quite some time. It is often depicted as AI running manufacturing processes and killing or enslaving people. Such imagery is only natural. Humans are visceral. Boy. We have bodies and bodies influence the way we think so much that there's even a book... Continue Reading →
How to support a friend who’s lost someone to suicide
9 points to consider if your friend has lost someone in a way like that: scroll below. On the last day of April I learned that my brother was gone the night before. The kind of pain that has followed is indescribable. Grief is individual. It is a common misconception that it takes 40 days... Continue Reading →
Relationship bingo!
After his 3 year relationship broke, my friend asked me "So which one is more relevant in choosing a partner: feelings or rationality?" One blink and I had to answer "A bit of both." Some years ago when I was a bit more naive, I stumbled into a toxic relationship. After one year of struggling... Continue Reading →
Why should you consult a psychologist for your business
Everything we do is for people and by people.* When I speak about improving things about your business, often people think I mean working on workplace mental health improvement. That is not what I mean. Yet it is an easy assumption to make because if you know just a bit about psychology, you may have... Continue Reading →
The numbers will rise
The numbers will rise, stop staring at them. They grow and grow and we know the majority of real cases go undetected. I could infect my granny, you could infect yours, human contact is lava - avoid at all cost. You stare at the numbers, search for updates, try to make calculations. You seek out... Continue Reading →
Bias of dating
Going on dates is not a good way to find love. The process itself gets you biased if you do end up starting a relationship. One of the things that makes dating a fucked up business is the concept called relationship escalator. Dates - kiss - sex - relationship - moving in - getting married... Continue Reading →
Help. A call for more of it to the world
How do people succeed? If the measure of success is financial wealth, then generally and statistically, mostly it's people who don't have to work their asses off, who were born into money. SES a good measure for it has been studied a lot. Even the marshmallow test got somewhat invalidated because the best predictor for... Continue Reading →
Social code
I see you on the street. I know you know me. I say hello. Say hello, come on! Why do you hide your head? Pretend you didn't see? Isn't that a familiar situation? Isn't it familiar to occasionally do that to someone you're not quite sure they remember you or how they think of you,... Continue Reading →
Brain tawk is cheap
I need to share with you something important. If you want to think better and write better about your mind, consider the following: Neuroreductionism. Oh, what a nice complicated word! It is essentially assigning the properties of the mind to the brain. Saying that "my brain is so smart that it came up with such... Continue Reading →
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